Debbie and I have a couple of investigator families who love the message of the restored gospel, who love to have us over to their humble homes, who love to come to church, who love to read the scriptures--but these people actually do not have enough to eat. They often simply cannot eat on a given day for lack of food. This is normal life for them, they often simply have nothing to eat. One of these families felt the need to explain to us this week what was going on in their life--we had shown some surprise that they had no children. They do have children they told us, four or five of them between them, but those children have been sent away to live with relatives that can provide food for them--not clothes, bikes, toys, or education--just food enough to live. The parents, simply go hungry for days at a time. They don't mourn or put on a particularly sad face--it is something to which they are accustomed. I really had no idea about this until we started asking some specific questions. We have other investigators that have other children in their homes ("children of the house", they are called) for this same reason; they are able to feed them while their parents are not. So what do you do? We cannot change the economy which has no industrial development and therefore no related employment opportunities. As we visited people in preparation to leave for the states yesterday, we loaded up on rice and beans and took a week's supply to a a few people in particular need. We are so very aware and afraid of creating dependency--but sometimes, you just have to give a starving person a piece of bread.
On the other hand, there is no shortage of professional beggars here--one very pathetic woman came by the other day and explained that she hadn't eaten for a long time and just wanted some food. I went to the bakery across the street and bought some bread and brought it back to her. It turns out that she didn't want the bread but asked if we would just give her money instead.
A productive thing that we are doing, aside from saving their souls, is encouraging them to think of education as a way to step out of starvation. Some are interested, and we help them get into schools and other training courses. Others really are not enamored of the idea of effort as a path out of poverty. It is a fascinating place we live.
Debbie,
ReplyDeleteI have so enjoyed reading your blog about your mission. Have been touched several times and wish there was something we could do. If you need some money or anything else for your members, please contact me when you are here for Toby's mother's funeral. Our condolences to him.
I admire you for the sacrifice and service you are giving. Makes me a bit more excited to serve ourselves one day here sooner than later.
Love,
Renee