Friday, April 20, 2012

1918--2012

My mother, Daphne Smart Osborn passed away today just a bit short of her 94th birthday.  I was able to chat with her a couple of days ago just before she lost consciousness.  Her passing was peaceful following a very very good and long life--leaving a posterity in numbers only slightly less than the sands of the sea. 
We expected mom to not live through our mission and said our in-person goodbyes as we left.  Though expected and welcomed, we still find this surprisingly painful.  Perhaps I will be more sympathetic now to the thousands of orphans of Mozambique, now that I am one of them.  After much thought, we have decided to travel to Salt Lake for her funeral and will leave after church on Sunday.  We confess that the thought of two and a half days of travel does not have much appeal.  We will be back on May 3rd.  If you are the mother of a young missionary in Quelimane and want to send a small (tiny) thing back with us to your son, contact us.


This is the Quelimane missionary district consisting of Elders Delgado, Homer, Barlow, McCullough, Petersen and Rios--and the Casal Osborn.  Very good missionaries, at least all of the young ones.  We really enjoy our association with these young men.  We parent them a little, but not too much and learn much from them.  We spend a fair amount of time together and really grow attached to them.

We were walking to a lesson today and passed this very friendly woman who greeted us. Debbie admired her beautiful baby (one month old) and she said, oh, I have another just like it inside, and showed us the first set of twins (above) that we have yet seen here. This is Veronika who also said she and her husband would like to hear our message. Veronica displays some attributes that are typical here, the first (and only one that I noticed) is her close cropped hair, which is immensely practical (and attractive if you have the head for it) and the other is cleavage--which is the norm here as far as the way women dress. Women like Veronika are not attempting to be provocative (though there is another element like that), just practical for the most part, as most women of her age seem to be nursing a child or two.



These boys are all playing the tire game, which we do not fully understand, but it consists of running through the streets and paths and alleyways using sticks to direct a tire in front of you at high speed.

Chameleons come from Mozambique.  But this is the very first one we have seen.  They are harmless but the local population believes that their bite will kill you immediately.  I nearly stepped on this one (and thus narrowly averted instant death).  We watched it for a few minutes and saw that it does indeed change color and pattern dramatically and quickly depending on the appearance of its surroundings.

5 comments:

  1. love the pic of grandma and grandpa. liz reminded me how much they loved hawaii so i am feeling like she'd be happy ben and i were there, but still so sad to miss the funeral. she was such an amazing woman. one of my very favorite people in the world. good luck with the long travels. i think you will be happy you went. also the twins are so adorable and the kids got your postcard which was super fun

    ReplyDelete
  2. So sorry to hear about your mom. Goodluck traveling back and forth. That is a long trip to take, but worthwhile one.
    Linda Gee

    ReplyDelete
  3. That picture made me cry. Please bring me a baby on the airplane.

    ReplyDelete
  4. Hi-I will see you soon and hope the travel goes OK. Your mother was a wonderful person and everyone who knows her will agree. Our prayers are with you both. ggh

    ReplyDelete
  5. Toby, I'm sorry to hear of your mother's passing. I can imagine that no matter the age or circumstances, there's nothing quite like losing a parent and nothing to really prepare you for it. I'm glad you both get to come "home" for a little while and hope it will be as enjoyable a time as those circumstances allow.

    and as always enjoy your pictures and commentary so much, I never get over those beautiful african babies!

    ReplyDelete