The musings, insights, and periodic narratives of Debbie and Toby Osborn as they serve their Mormon missions in Moçambique.
Saturday, September 29, 2012
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
Northern Exposure
I am going to let the pictures do the talking about our recent visit up north for church work in Nampula and recreation in Nacala. Here goes:
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These fisherman were diving and snorkeling looking for fish in the same place we were wading in the water on Monday. Love those dug out canoes. |
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Yes, it is a hard life, but someone has to do the work! |
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When missionaries have the chance they get very creative. This missionary was a little crabby!!! |
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But look how delicious their wares are . We always buy cashews on the road. The full red bowl was about 180 mt. or about $7 for over a kilo of nuts. |
Sunday, September 23, 2012
Persecution complex
I have no pictures that do this little narrative justice. I would be great if it had been caught on video.
We left Saturday morning to drive to Nampula for the weekend. We had only travelled a block or so from our home and were approaching a major intersection. As we pulled to a stop we saw a woman in great distress with a pile of tomatoes fallen on the ground, most of which were crushed and broken. In anger she was stomping the rest of them to smithereens (I actually don't really know what a smithereens is, but I think that it is small and unusable). We surmised that she was carrying a basket load of tomatoes to sell at the market or roadside when she dropped it. She cut a pretty tragic figure there stomping in tears in the middle of the road.
Despite widely held opinions to the contrary, I am a compassionate soul. I asked Debbie to roll down her window and offer some money to the distraught woman--to reduce her loss and lighten her load. As she did so, the woman reached down and grabbed a heaping handful of tomato chunks and heaved it through the open window, accompanied by words of fury. The missiles plastered Debbie, me, and the car's interior and windows. Onlookers at this busy intersection looked on in amazement and amusement. We were somewhat surprised by the outcome of our largesse. Finally awakening from our shock, we drove on--spending the next seven hours in a sticky pizza-like state-- though lacking pepperoni.
We left Saturday morning to drive to Nampula for the weekend. We had only travelled a block or so from our home and were approaching a major intersection. As we pulled to a stop we saw a woman in great distress with a pile of tomatoes fallen on the ground, most of which were crushed and broken. In anger she was stomping the rest of them to smithereens (I actually don't really know what a smithereens is, but I think that it is small and unusable). We surmised that she was carrying a basket load of tomatoes to sell at the market or roadside when she dropped it. She cut a pretty tragic figure there stomping in tears in the middle of the road.
Despite widely held opinions to the contrary, I am a compassionate soul. I asked Debbie to roll down her window and offer some money to the distraught woman--to reduce her loss and lighten her load. As she did so, the woman reached down and grabbed a heaping handful of tomato chunks and heaved it through the open window, accompanied by words of fury. The missiles plastered Debbie, me, and the car's interior and windows. Onlookers at this busy intersection looked on in amazement and amusement. We were somewhat surprised by the outcome of our largesse. Finally awakening from our shock, we drove on--spending the next seven hours in a sticky pizza-like state-- though lacking pepperoni.
Friday, September 21, 2012
A week in the life
We have had a very full week on the heels of a couple not quite so busy. Which is better, too much to do or not quite enough? I think that Debbie and I would opt for more rather than less.
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Cute children unstaged on the way to a lesson. We taught much more this week than in recently. |
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We had to leave the city for to find a source of gravel for our island well-project which began officially commenced this week. This is an abandoned quarry in which local children were frolicking. |
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The twins of course. |
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
And so it begins...
We have our new contract with our dona (or owner) for two years, so the work on expanding the chapel and painting our interior rooms began this weekend. As with all remodels, I hate the mess already. So many unknown workers on the property all day long. So I am praying not to be stressed by it all, even though parts of it are driving me crazy. On Saturday, my husband took the workers to buy all of the supplies for the project. Ha! We have made one or two trips each day for more of the same. It will be great in the end, since we have 106 at church last week and really need the enlarged space.
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Edma and Aissa wanted to earn some money, so we taught them how to paint. It was harder than they thought, but they are ready for another room. We had them practice on the Primary last Saturday. |
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The is the new wall going up. We will create another side walk or path through the grass to get to the out buildings and the bathroom. Everything is done slowly by hand. |
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There was the problem of the electrical pole... |
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It was taken out and wires moved, but what to do with it now? |
Sunday, September 16, 2012
Necessity as the mother of invention
Thursday, September 13, 2012
Hopeful and Helpless
The portrait below is of our friend Amizade standing next to Júlio Machado who is holding in his pocket the recently executed contract for the expansion (by 50%) of the Quelimane chapel. I was rather proud of my effort to get this done. My Portuguese required only a couple of corrections in the end and the contract provides for everything it needed to--safeguarding our interests as best we can and providing the contractor with a bonus to make things go on budget and schedule. The first proposal that we had received for this work was for upwards of $40,000 US dollars (remember that this is a rented building with a two year lease). Our final negotiated price with Júlio here is a bit under $2,000 US. Make me report in a month on the results of our cost-conscious efforts. I have hopes of a beautiful and more capacious chapel at a bargain price. We also have hopes of becoming an official "branch" of the church at about the same time. We will see.We spend the late afternoon buying concrete (there is a shortage in quelimane). There is no doubt that I have "lost a step" in the last years as those 110 lb. bags of concrete were not all that easy to toss around.

This is young woman is a random Moçambicana lass. I show her as a representative example substituting for the woman of whom I will speak. She is a long time attender of the church here in Quelimane. We visited her the other day and she needed a shoulder to cry on. She is 19 with two children. To escape a new stepmother and absent father, she moved in with a young man when she was 12 or thirteen (called "traditional" marriage here) and started having babies. Now with two young children she finds herself with a "husband" who has wearied of her and wants out--and she is without any skills or ability to support herself on her own. She explained that her only option is to find a man to support her, which she feels means she must sleep around to find someone willing. It is how it is done she explains. This is an attractive and very bright woman who is without a lot of options. She seemed genuinely surprised that that "adultery commandment" that she had heard about had some application here. I am a pragmatic man, but not quite that much. Truly the traditional culture, and the dearth of economic opportunity here create a very bleak world for an awful lot of people. What would you do if you were her? Or what would you counsel if you were I? How would you give her hope?


These are our twins Santo and Santinho (it has been days since we last posted pictures of them). They have peed on each of us a number of times this week, but we cannot fail to have hope for the future when we are around them.




These are our twins Santo and Santinho (it has been days since we last posted pictures of them). They have peed on each of us a number of times this week, but we cannot fail to have hope for the future when we are around them.
Location:Quelimane, Moçambique
Sunday, September 9, 2012
Odds and Ends or FYI...
Just a quick glimpse at some of the interesting things that went on this week:
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Yes, you may note that the weather is changing and guess who is back from vacation? THE ANTS! Especially tiresome are the hundreds covering the entrance to the bathroom. No bare feet for me! |
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This is the inside of our little couples apartment in Marromeu. It often reminds us of camping except with nice indoor plumbing. |
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Behind the chapel in Marromeau is a nice garden (horta) where som of the young men are growing lettuce and cabbage. It is pretty ipressive. |
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Does anybody really know what time it is?
There are some interesting things about life in Mozambique, or at least our little backwater of Quelimane. Here are some recent things I have noted:
1) You may ask a pregnant woman when she is "due"--when the baby is going to come--but you will never get an answer other than, "whenever it comes" or "soon" or "not for a long time". The idea of figuring out such things has never occurred to them. They sort of look at you with the question in their eyes of "who could possiblyknow that?" And, I guess when you live as they do, unburdened by calendars and schedules for many, it really is detailed knowledge beyond their need to know. Which brings us to the next item.
2) If you ask someone when their birthday is, chances are they won't know. We asked that question to Veronica the other day and she had absolutely no idea. We asked Rui and Bendita the birthday of their daughter and they responded that they have a document somewhere that contains that information, but of themselves, they really didn't know or care. As one who is sometimes overwhelmed by all the gift giving occasions of American Society, I must admit that the state of affairs here has a little bit of appeal. It really is non-essential information. Which reminds me. Recently, we met Rui's father who looked to be in his sixties or seventies. We asked him how old he was (no questions are considered rude here) and he gave a year, but couldn't remember a month or date. His son started laughing a bit and mentioned to him that he was younger than his son according to his reconing. Really, birthdays are not a principal focus here.
3) They take a different approach to naming children here. I'm not quite sure what the underlying philosophy is, but for sure they take it a little less seriously. I have already shared pictures of our adopted twin grandsons here, Santo and Santinho or Saint and Little Saint. We have a baby at church who is named Haha (he likes to laugh). We met a woman with child last week at church and asked after the name of the infant. "Ultimo" she replied, meaning "last". She assured me that he would indeed be the last. (but then, I recall that I do have a last child of my own daughter who is named Fin--a similar statement of finality--perhaps one must be a mother to understand this). I have already documented here that sometimes, the task of naming a child will simply be delegated to someone else to take care of, so that the parents don't have to bother with it.
1) You may ask a pregnant woman when she is "due"--when the baby is going to come--but you will never get an answer other than, "whenever it comes" or "soon" or "not for a long time". The idea of figuring out such things has never occurred to them. They sort of look at you with the question in their eyes of "who could possiblyknow that?" And, I guess when you live as they do, unburdened by calendars and schedules for many, it really is detailed knowledge beyond their need to know. Which brings us to the next item.
2) If you ask someone when their birthday is, chances are they won't know. We asked that question to Veronica the other day and she had absolutely no idea. We asked Rui and Bendita the birthday of their daughter and they responded that they have a document somewhere that contains that information, but of themselves, they really didn't know or care. As one who is sometimes overwhelmed by all the gift giving occasions of American Society, I must admit that the state of affairs here has a little bit of appeal. It really is non-essential information. Which reminds me. Recently, we met Rui's father who looked to be in his sixties or seventies. We asked him how old he was (no questions are considered rude here) and he gave a year, but couldn't remember a month or date. His son started laughing a bit and mentioned to him that he was younger than his son according to his reconing. Really, birthdays are not a principal focus here.
3) They take a different approach to naming children here. I'm not quite sure what the underlying philosophy is, but for sure they take it a little less seriously. I have already shared pictures of our adopted twin grandsons here, Santo and Santinho or Saint and Little Saint. We have a baby at church who is named Haha (he likes to laugh). We met a woman with child last week at church and asked after the name of the infant. "Ultimo" she replied, meaning "last". She assured me that he would indeed be the last. (but then, I recall that I do have a last child of my own daughter who is named Fin--a similar statement of finality--perhaps one must be a mother to understand this). I have already documented here that sometimes, the task of naming a child will simply be delegated to someone else to take care of, so that the parents don't have to bother with it.
4) An admirable custom here is that of "filhos da casa" or children of the house. It is very common for families to have children who live with them who are unrelated. If a family does not have the means to provide for their children, someone else will take them in and feed them. In return they will help out as needed. It seems to work. They are not slaves but they eat and work and are provided a place to sleep and a little bit of supervision. Gaspar and Veronica, who we teach, are poor as can be, (at least until he got his bike), but they have two such children in their mud home--who help out with the twins.
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Most anything that can be is carried and sold via bicycle. We had to hurry and catch this guy so Sister Osborn could make her purchases. |
Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Slowly, slowly
This is Veronica who is so dyslexic I cannot even tell you. But, she wrote her name today on the board without looking after about five tries. I am so proud! Her progress after a month is sort of like life in the church here; slow, slow but progress is happening.
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